Every puppy is born with the potential to be amazing, but good manners don't happen overnight.
The magic window for learning is between 8-16 weeks, when puppies are most receptive to new experiences and training.
Teaching these essential skills early means fewer headaches later and more enjoyable experiences for both of you.
"Wait" - The Foundation of All Good Behavior
Before teaching "sit" or "stay," teach "wait." This simple command helps your puppy learn impulse control and that good things come to those who pause.
Start with feeding time β hold their bowl and ask them to "wait" for just a second before saying "okay" and placing it down.
Gradually increase the wait time. This skill prevents rushing through doorways, jumping for treats, and teaches patience.
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Gentle Mouth - No Teeth on Humans, Ever
Puppies explore the world with their mouths, but they need to learn that human skin is off-limits.
When your puppy puts their teeth on you, immediately say "ouch!" in a high-pitched voice and stop playing. Turn away and ignore them for 10-15 seconds.
Consistency is key β every family member needs to follow the same rule. Redirect their mouthy behavior to appropriate chew toys.
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"Leave It" - The Ultimate Safety Command
This command can literally save your dog's life and your sanity.
Start indoors with a treat in your closed fist. When your puppy tries to get it, say "leave it" and wait. The moment they stop trying and look at you instead, mark it with "yes!" and give them a different treat from your other hand.
Practice with increasingly tempting items until they can "leave it" reliably.
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Polite Greetings - 4x Paws on the Floor
Jumping up might be cute when they're tiny, but a 25kg dog launching at visitors isn't charming. Teach your puppy that attention comes only when all 4 paws are on the ground.
When they jump, turn away and ignore them. The moment they sit or stand calmly, give them attention and praise.
Ask visitors to follow the same rule β no petting jumping puppies!
Settle and Stay Calm in New Environments
A well-mannered dog can accompany you places and remain calm in new situations.
Start by teaching your puppy to "settle" on a mat or blanket at home. Reward them for lying down and staying relaxed. Gradually practice in new locations β your friend's house, pet-friendly cafes, or training classes.
The goal is a dog who can observe new environments without becoming overexcited or reactive.
Bonus Pro tip!
Consistency beats perfection every time.
It's better to practice these skills for 5 minutes daily than to have one intense training session per week. And remember β puppies learn faster in environments with other well-behaved dogs to model good behavior.
Quality puppy socialisation programs and structured dog daycare can accelerate this learning process tremendously.
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